Dear ____________,

After re-reading your message and my reply I went to your Wall and looked for a photo of you that I could read. Here are my findings based on that photo:

The cause of your inability to clinch deals seems to be no other than yourself. While you wish to be a big success, there is, in your subconscious, fear or a residue of guilt in becoming one, so that you unconsciously slip hints to people you are negotiating with that they should not take you up on your offers. It is almost like a person who wants to wallow in her greatest love but doesn't do so because she feels that she does not truly deserve it. And so destroys it. Or sabotages herself.

Investigate the possible reasons behind this:

1) Are you in competition with a parent or a sibling, and wish that that person should be more successful than you are because they seem to deserve it more?
2) Are you preventing yourself from succeeding because succeeding means losing a romantic interest? (Always keep in mind that there are men who resent their wives or girlfriends being big successes.)
3) Do you actually wish to be dependent on others rather than have others depend on you (the latter of which might happen if you do become a big success)?

Still willing to sit down and have coffee with you. And give you a piece of Sinukuan, plus maybe something else.